weheartit-How I Plan To Adult:

 Hey Guys,

On spiritual level, I believe that being/becoming an adult should be a top priority to help you become the person that you should be. If you scroll down below, you will see the steps that I am focusing on, to help me become more of an adult and slowly become less dependent on others.

I'm at the age where I want to take charge of my own life and make the changes that I have been yearning to take.

I want to step into the real me and own it!

Become Responsible:

I want to aim to become less dependent on others and more dependent on God. I want to build a closer relationship with him and soak in his presence! I believe God wants us to grow into our greatest selves and I can do this with him and through him <3 God is growth

You choose your own behaviour, actions and words. You also learn to become responsible.
  • Your actions shape your personality. You choose whether to be lazy/get up early everyday. You prove to yourself that you can be, in fact, accountable for your actions.

"The ability to understand yourself, your actions, how your actions affect others, and what is socially acceptable all go into the responsible decision-making process."

What Are You Responsible For?

  • My sleep.
  • My health.
  • My unemployment status.
  • Where I live.
  • Having a clean room.
  • Getting my weekly food shop.
  • Paying in my bank cheque.
  • My career.

    • What Responsibility Have Came From Your Family Members?

    • Wash the dishes when everyone is out.
    • Receive the parcels.
    • Put the laundry on the line.
  • Open the door if family member does not have a key.

    • What Responsibility Have Came From Your Friends

    • To be there for them.
    • Listen to them.
    • Be a positive support for them.

    Responsibility From What You See On TV.

    Grief
    • I need to acknowledge that I am responsible for my own grieving! I must process my thoughts and my feelings and get the necessary support that I need!

    Read

    How to be a grown up

    Move Out

    I'm not living in an environment that enables me to be an adult. Moving out from your family home; proves to yourself that you are a responsible.

    Study Part-Time

    • So you can apply to jobs in your free time and also improve your employ-ability.

    Get a Job

    • So I can contribute towards bills and gain a bit of independence.

    Dream To:

    Progress in life. I just want to keep moving in life; even though I have no direction at all.

    Live in the Real World

    • I want to accept life for what is and focus on the things that I want to grow in my life and keep working towards what I want in my future- long-term.

    Things You Will Need to Learn

    • Paying bills on time.
    • How to budget.
    • Which insurance you need, such as contents insurance.
    • How to write your own will.
    • How to cook from scratch.
    • Know what words like ‘ISA’ and ‘tracker’ mean.
    • Your own views on politics.
    • How to change a light bulb.
    • How to keep track of interest rates.
    • How to follow a recipe.

      • Maintain Healthy Relationships

      • It would be amazing to maintain positive relationships with family and friends. I can learn a lot through the experiences I have with my friends as it will help me to connect with the people who represent/ appreciate me for who I am. It will also help me to learn more about myself as a person too.
      • I'm not surrounded by positive, healthy relationships and I believe that this can affect my self-esteem and my positive energy.

      Things I Already Do That Makes Me An Adult.

      • Doing my own laundry.
      • Doing my own ironing.
      • Went halves on buying a brand new mattress with my sister.
      • Book my own appointments.
      • Cook my own meals.

      • Things I Am Not Responsible For

        • My family.

        Things I Should Do More Of

        • Clearing the dishes away in the evening.

        My Positive Qualities

        • Kind.
        • Loving.
        • Trustworthy.
        • Loyal.
        • Reliable.
        • Honest.

          • Things I Don't Own

          • A credit card.

          My Past Experience

          • Contributing to bills at home.
          • Paying bills on time for my student accommodation.

            • Adult Insight

            • Think, How would I feel if this happened to me? Consider others in your every decision making.
            • Be more responsible for every action you make.

            Things I want to Learn:

            • I want to learn new skills.
            • I want to learn to not blame people for my own mistakes.

            Things I Want To Reflect In My Life

            • Be kind whenever possible, and firm when necessary.
            • Don't be a pushover.

            Learning Disability

            • I believe that my dyslexia may make me be a little bit co-dependent in terms of studying and filling out forms and it may inhibit me from applying to certain jobs and may affect my confidence a little.

            Future Goal

            • Live in a place without family.

            Being An Adult

            • Going to bed before 11pm.
            • Getting organised: with a to-do list.
            • Having a calendar.
            • Clean up after yourself.
            • Learn to tell yourself what to-do.

            I hope this article inspired someone out there!

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