How I Plan To Adult In My 30s:

 Hey everyone,

I really want to dedicate my time to keep on growing and to keep on improving my life at a great rate. I hope to be a big inspiration to those online and those around me. Scroll down below to view how I choose to adult.

I want to become more and more responsible:

What areas of your life can you become responsible?

In the past:

  • Opening and closing the store.

What Are You Responsible For?

  • Getting ready on time for work.
  • Leaving out at the right time for work.
  • Getting to work on time.
  • My health.
  • My healing.
  • My relationship with God.
  • Getting my clothes organised.
  • Being fed.
  • Getting my health checks.
  • Getting the required medical attention- for not healing after m.
  • Getting the ingredients for my dishes.
  • My organisation skills.
  • Getting sufficient sleep.
  • Sleeping at a decent time.
  • Getting a bigger income.
  • Bettering my life.
  • Spending my time in 2 locations.
  • Carving out time to visit my boyfriend.
  • Creating your happiness- where necessary.
  • Sorting out your room and organising it- that's where everything begins!
  • Taking necessary courses or engaging in the work force to embrace on new talents and skills.

    • What Responsibility Have Came From Your Family Members?

    • Educating my siblings on certain topics.
    • Advising my siblings.
    • Waking up sibling for school.
    • Washing the dishes.
    • Receiving parcels.
    • Opening the door for family member.

    What Responsibility Have Came From Your Friends

    • To be there for the ones who truly need it. In God's name. amen.
    • Really practice your listening skills.
    • Be a positive support for them.

    What Responsibility Has Came From Your Boyfriend

    • To be there for him- his mental health.
    • To be a listener for him.
    • To visit him.

    Things I Already Do That Makes Me An Adult.

    • Be a support system for my younger siblings.
    • Go to work.
    • Go grocery shopping.
    • Have a boyfriend.

    Things I Am Not Responsible For

    • My family.
    • Anyone's mental health.
    • My boyfriend's happiness.

    Things I Should Do More Of

    • Organising myself.
    • Getting myself into a routine for different locations, such as work/ my boyfriend's home.
    • Sleeping early and waking up earlier.

    Qualities I Need To Embrace More of:

    • Kindness.
    • Loving.
    • Trustworthy.
    • Loyal.
    • Reliable.
    • Honest.

    Things I Don't Own

    • A credit card.
    • A car.
    • A house.

  • Future Goal

    • To move in with boyfriend.

    Being An Adult

    • Going to bed at a reasonable time when you have work/meeting someone.
    • Organise yourself.
    • Clean up after yourself.
    • Learn to tell yourself what to-do and work actively on your goals.
    • Attend Church.
    • Soak in Gods presence.

    Thank you for reading and I hope this article inspires you

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